From a story about a campus "men's professional group" started at the University of Chicago to counterbalance women's groups [A frat? -- ed. A frat with all the obvious benefits of a fraternity removed and all the obvious drawbacks of a frat doubled, yes.]:
Hayward said one of the biggest myths borne of the women's movement was that men like to help each other out.
"We are competing directly for access to women and jobs," he said.
"What you do last weekend, bro?"
"Aw, I got lucky and accessed one of the Delta Phis!"
It's okay, though. They're not treating women like objects, they're treating women like *resources*.